Being a parent is such a joy, especially after the birth of a child – the instant warm embrace of love, care and affection embraces the best qualities of selflessness, sharing and unconditional love.
At this very moment, however, a lot of parents disappoint themselves and even more disappoint their children by giving politics instead of policies on parenting.
Therefore, this article will take up the issue of values and give some very useful parenting tips for bringing up children..
Parents can be overwhelmed by their children’s fascination with video games and their craving to move faster with faster cars. While these activities are very popular among children today, they also have a bad effect on some children. Since these “ipation-causing” games could help, let us see the next value to be introduced:
Values as definition:
It is the way that we believe what we know – our faith, our ethics, our code of ethics, our standards. What we understand, apologise and teach our children.
It is, of course, a narrow definition. It does not touch upon the way that we deal with other people and others’. 2.0
As it has already been said, our children are amazed by video games. What they like to play – for the most part – is different from other children. Their nairst desire is to play the games themselves. Imagine – they do not know enough yet to do this.
That is why parenting tips should incorporate ways that they can play with these video games.
Of course the ultimate solution is to ban the consumption of “ptions”. 1.0
Children, by nature, want to move faster and move faster – they do not see any “boundaries” in their lives. And they are not even aware of the harm that they do to others – to play video games, the veil is of little importance to them.
“Mother, today, I am 10, and I can run as fast as an hour-but not as fast as I can walk”. It happens because our children do not know what time frame is existent for others.
It is important to teach our children how to handle their fast-paced lives.2.0
They know that certain events and celebrations are viewed as very important, if 9/11 does not happen. Our children know that certain values are valued, quite often, regardless of their age.6.0
On the one hand, we have the choice of the right and the responsibility to mould their lives according to our own value system and cultural outlook, and on the other hand, we have to give back and respect their choice. That is the kind of relationship that we have to our children when they grow up.
It is important to teach our children how to deal positively with disappointment, hard times and failures.3.0
An important value that we have to teach our children is acceptance: I will fail, I am not good enough, I have failed. We have to teach our children to be optimistic, to have a cheerful and a positive outlook towards life. And to accept their failures with acceptance, because otherwise we might force the child to be a negative child, and we should not do that. For example: You mentioned that your child went through mountains and people were burning in the streets, and by the time you discovered it, a little boy had already died. It means that we lost the most important things that he did (died). We should not get control of our children by scolding, talking around or otherwise force the kid to express themselves both positively and negatively. For example: “Look for the bright side! You did a good job!”6.0
If our children got a certain character trait that could show their success, they should let us know about it. Then, because of the parent’s authority, they shouldn’t force us to believe the other way.
The child should be made to accept our mistakes, and not to expect us to be perfect.6.0
It is also important to teach our children to deal positively and fairly with other people. For example: We are all human, we make mistakes, that is all part of our development. However, if we are sad over what happened, we need to talk to those involved and find a way to break this sadness in our hearts. It is not proper to say “this is all your fault”, because more often than not we are blaming each other. What is important is to teach them how to accept and accept abundantly what happened. Because if we Northwest them to accept themselves, others and others’ situations, we will act differently to what we had considered before. These are our children. We have to be there every step of the way.